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Thursday 16 August 2012

Online or offline, that is the question...


 


I remember being a young undergraduate of 18 and tutting (silently, from that place that felt superior because it rejected most forms of technology) at other students who had mobile phones and delighted in talking loudly upon them.  “I’ll never be one of those people who’ll own one of those things.  If I’m out, I don’t want to be contactable.”  This was 1996, when we had an “Introduction to the Internet” as a compulsory class at the beginning of first year and directed to one of two major search engines: Yahoo or Alta Vista.  Google was but a fledgling flexing its wings.  We were told to “search” for something… It was painfully slow dial-up and our email accounts looked like Ceefax.  I didn’t even know what to search for. To find journal articles in the library we had to look up enormous reference books and search under keywords.  Research was a difficult process; there was no such thing as Google Scholar.  On the plus side, when I found an obscure article to reference in an essay, I was delighted.  Not everyone on the course could have the same bibliography created by searching the same academic journals on the same websites. 

But, things move on; technology makes things easier, more accessible. My sister game me a brick (mobile phone) when I was in fourth year so that my family could contact me easily.  I still rejected it: it remained plugged in, in my room and was never taken out to become “mobile”.  Perhaps this was more to do with how unbelievably uncool it was; after all, I didn’t go to university in an 80s movie.  I still used my Sony Walkman, which I thought was marvellous as it could slip so easily into my pocket. But, when Brick gave up the ghost and I realised that I quite liked texting as it didn’t engender the commitment of a phone call, I bought a new phone before I went to teacher training college in 2000.  This was the thin edge of a dangerous wedge.  I used it for texting, and for the one thing I thought I would never do: for cancelling plans at the last minute, or for warning friends of my tardiness. Having it meant that plans were never really “fixed”, but rather in constant flux, which is modern life to a tee. We don’t even have to commit to going to a concert we’ve bought tickets for.  


I have a Belgian friend, who lives in Brussels who is 36 and has never owned a mobile phone; he absolutely refuses.  He’s the most reliable person I know.  He never cancels; he always turns up where he has planned and when he has planned.  He has to.  He isn’t on Facebook either, thus he’s never texting and updating his status simultaneously, while pinning on Pinterest, Blogging and buying unnecessary stuff on Ebay while drunk.  Ok, so he’s hard to pin down, to get him to answer his phone and I don’t see pictures he’s been tagged in whilst unawares, but at least he still emanates a sense of mystery which I would click “Like” on if I could.